Mister Blue is a licensed mental health therapist and works as Team Lead for an enhanced community based therapy service in the rural community of Roxboro, NC and surrounding areas. He educates, empowers, and entertains via music, photography, videography, and more... You can find him doing such in the areas of Durham, NC and his hometown of Charleston, SC.
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Monday, January 5, 2015
Today's Challenge: Look for the divine within the ordinary trials of you...
Today's Quotation:
The "trials of ordinary existence" are the divine curricula for spiritual maturity.
Skye Jethani
Today's Meditation:
It is difficult to imagine how many opportunities I have squandered in life to learn and gain invaluable spiritual wisdom, simply because I was looking for something extraordinary. There is endless sacredness and beauty present all around us at every ordinary moment of our lives--in our family, friends, and neighbors, in songs and laughter, in the rushing brook, throughout all of nature and the expanse of the universe.
It becomes quite easy for us to ignore the ordinary, perhaps because we have seen it all before and it seems so understandable. The flowers bloom every year, so what is the big deal? Yet we are wrong... those blooms are not the same blooms as they were last year, or the year before. The world around us truly is holy, from the very next person that we will run into... to the flowers and trees, birds and animals... to the infinite amount of matter spread out throughout this massive universe. And until we are able to see each creation in its own sacred and unique right, we will fail to understand and to learn the "divine curricula" they speak to us.
From the food on our tables, to the falling snow and rain, to the smile of a child, to the comforting embrace of a caring friend--each and every creation is an extraordinary, unique, and holy creation of God, just as I am. And by recognizing the sacredness around us, and allowing ourselves to focus our awareness on it, we allow our lives to become much richer.
Today's Challenge: Look for the divine within the ordinary trials of your life today.
Questions to consider:
How rich do you feel your life to be? What are some of the sacred things in your life?
Does failing to notice the sacredness in the ordinary rob us of our riches? How might being able to see the divine in the ordinary existence of life add to them?
Is sacredness reserved for saints, priests, and pastors? Why do we tend to feel that they somehow have better access to the sacred?
For further thought:
All thoughts, all passions, all delights, whatever stirs this mortal frame, all are but ministers of love, and feed his sacred flame.
Hartley Coleridge
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Today's Challenge: Make the most of your life today by entering all four rooms of your proverbial "house."
There is an Indian proverb or axiom that says that everyone is a house with four rooms--a physical, a mental, an emotional, and a spiritual. Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time, but unless we go into every room every day, even if only to keep it aired, we are not a complete person.
Rumer Godden
Today's Meditation:
As a child, it had never really occurred to me that there might be more to me than just the person I thought I was. But as I have grown older and learned more about myself and life, I have come to realize that who I am consists of many differing parts--and that if I simply try to improve one of these parts while neglecting the others, I generally fail in the long run.
Lasting change requires our lives to be in balance, our personhood to be in harmony with all our essential fibers of being. And if we "go into every room every day," we are sustaining that balance and making sure that we are aware of where we stand as far as these four elements of ourselves are concerned. Perhaps I have been at a spiritual low for the past few days. Without this awareness, I might not understand what is bringing me down, and I have no way of seeing that some spiritual nourishment may be all that is necessary. Maybe the stressful feelings of the last few days are the result of emotional turmoil. Again, unless I pay attention to my emotions, I will not be able to address the issues that are causing the turmoil, and those stressful feelings will continue.
Each day... open the doors to those rooms you rarely frequent. Open the curtains and let the light guide you, direct you, and strengthen you as it weakens those negative things that hate the light. Open the windows and add fresh air into what has otherwise become stagnant. In doing so, we serve to strengthen our inner selves and help ourselves to remain aware of all that is going on within us.
Today's Challenge: Make the most of your life today by entering all four rooms of your proverbial "house."
Questions to consider:
What do you see when you enter each room of your house--emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually? How often to you frequent each room?
What are some ways in which you can encourage yourself to work on improving upon all aspects of who you are?
Are there any other rooms in your "house" that you recognize?
For further thought:
Personal growth is a process of identifying the physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual changes we desire, and working in each area to improve and reach our fullest potential.
Dr. Christina Hibbert
Friday, January 2, 2015
Today's Challenge: Ensure that all your interactions today express love, concern, compassion and kindness.
Thursday, January 1, 2015
New Year... Same Mission (educate, empower, and entertain...) The journey continues with me...
Every new year people make resolutions to change aspects of themselves they believe are negative. A majority of people revert back to how they were before and feel like failures. This year I challenge you to a new resolution. I challenge you to just be yourself.
Aisha Elderwyn
Today's Meditation:
New Year's resolutions do not necessarily have to be about changing a negative aspect of ourselves. Sure, we have flaws, and it is good to be aware of them and to work at reducing or eliminating them. But when we only look at the negative, and direct all our energies on only fixing what is wrong, we often find ourselves facing more difficulty and failure that generally leaves us no better off than we were before. Perhaps as Aisha mentions, the trick instead is to look for potential and places in our lives where we can excel.
When we spend our time focusing on things that we do well, and work hard to become even better at them, we set ourselves up for a high margin of success. And it is far easier to make positive changes in our lives when we are met with success instead of failure. Thus, with each little success we come that much closer to meaningful and lasting change.
This year, instead of looking for all the things you would like to fix in your life, focus on the things that you do well and work at getting even better at them. Just imagine the potential that you might create for yourself and the wonderful things you might accomplish. Remember, the most effective way we can strengthen our gifts is to use them to grow and further ourselves. So why not "just be yourself" this year and work on being the best version of yourself that you can be.
Today's Challenge: Resolve to change and build up a positive aspect of yourself this year.
Questions to consider:
What does it mean to you "to just be yourself?"
What are a few things you are good at? How much time do you spend developing those gifts?
What kinds of activities can you do to develop your own strengths?
For further thought:
In this new year, may you have a deep understanding of your true value and worth, an absolute faith in your unlimited potential, peace of mind in the midst of uncertainty, the confidence to let go when you need to, acceptance to replace your resistance, gratitude to open your heart, the strength to meet your challenges, great love to replace your fear, forgiveness and compassion for those who offend you, clear sight to see your best and true path, hope to dispel obscurity, the conviction to make your dreams come true, meaningful and rewarding synchronicities, dear friends who truly know and love you, a childlike trust in the benevolence of the universe, the humility to remain teachable, the wisdom to fully embrace your life exactly as it is, the understanding that every soul has its own course to follow, the discernment to recognize your own unique inner voice of truth, and the courage to learn to be still.
Janet Rebhan
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Identity Theft and Bank of America's Lies
On the 16th of January, I went to an ATM in Roxboro, NC to make a withdrawal. When I checked the receipt, I noticed that what was left in my account did not equal what should have been there. I immediately went to my office and logged into my Bank of America account to see what transactions went through. I noticed a pending entry from a company called National Safety Council which I did not authorize. I immediately googled the company and got the contact information so that I can contact them regarding such a matter. The customer service representative, Lisa, told me the details of such a transaction and it was revealed that my debit card information was compromised. I asked her to correct the fraudulent transaction and she indicated that she would void it out. I then contacted Bank of America and told them that my debit card was compromised and that someone was making illegal transactions with my card. The card was then cancelled. The customer representative at Bank of America indicated that if the representative at National Safety Council voided the charge, it would fall off the account by midnight.
Friday, January 18, 2013
It's not that "today is the first day of the rest of my life," but that now is all there is of my life.
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
We must not allow other people's limited perceptions to define us.
Monday, February 6, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
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Tuesday, January 10, 2012
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Monday, December 5, 2011
Eclectic Inspirations - Being a Winner
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Eclectic Inspirations: Attention to Detail
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
The skills that promote good communication and constructive resolution of conflict are, among others: selfdisclosure, explaining, active listening, perspective taking, reframing, and brainstorming. Tests of these skills, particularly active listening and perspective taking, show that is is helpful when at least one person in a conflict makes an attempt to listen fully and understand the point of the view of the other person.
1. Self-disclosure
When you self-disclose, you reveal to the listener some aspect of how you are feeling, especially that which you might have been trying to conceal. You also share with the listener what it is that you really need, without engaging in bargaining ploys to manipulate the listener.
2. Explaining
When you explain, you provide the listener with information about aspects of the situation that you are most concerned about. Both selfdisclosure and explaining must be done without using language that is blaming or disrespectful of the other person.
3. Active listening
When you actively listen, you turn your full attention to the overall message of the speaker, as well as the details, rather than focusing on your own concerns or on counterarguments. You also provide feedback to the speaker in order to ensure that you understood the message. The feedback may involve paraphrasing what you think the speaker said, and asking questions to clarify. It should not include an evaluation of, or a counterargument to, what the other person said; rather, it should be an attempt to understand the other person’s needs and concerns as he/she sees them.
4. Perspective taking
Perspective taking is largely an internal process in which you try to understand how it might feel to be the other person in the situation. It is fostered by active listening. In other words, perspective taking is trying to understand the other person’s needs, concerns, difficulties, and pain in this situation. It is often referred to as “putting yourself in the other person’s shoes.” Perspective taking and active listening can help move the situation from an adversarial one in which your needs are pitted against the other person’s, to a collaborative one in which you are working with the other person to satisfy both sets of needs.
5. Reframing
Reframing proceeds from active listening and involves moving further away from an adversarial ‘‘me against you’’ situation toward seeing the situation as a mutual problem to be solved collaboratively. It can be initiated by such statements as ‘‘what can we do so that you get what you need which is … and I get what I need which is...?’’
6. Brainstorming
Brainstorming comes after active listening and reframing, and involves coming up with as many solutions as possible for the problem, without critiquing them at first, and then narrowing them down to come up with the solution or set of solutions that best fits everyone’s needs. Generating many solutions, quickly and without evaluation, can help with creativity, and lead to unexpected resolutions.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Geechee One Volume 5 Issue 2
Friday, September 3, 2010
GeeChee One Magazine 2010 Awards Show F.A.Q.
GeeChee One Magazine 2010 Awards Show F.A.Q.
The nominees have been selected and write-ins will be accepted as there has been some dialogue of people not being nominated who feel that they should have been…
The award show will be based on popularity and merit. 50% of the vote will depend on the votes submitted on the GeeChee One website or other form of nomination process as indicated by the staff of GeeChee One Magazine. The other 50% will be determined by a merit vote as determined by an evaluation of nominee’s Electronic Press Kit (EPK) which will be linked on the website of GeeChee One Magazine. The judges of the merit based portion of the nomination process will be non-biased entertainment professionals who are known for their impact in the industry.
If you wish to have your EPK hosted on the GeeChee One website, there will be a $25 fee to cover administration and implementation costs. If you need an EPK designed, contact Felicia Rivers of GeeChee One Magazine for costs in regards to that matter. Various packages are available and are geared towards known industry standards.
The following inclusions on your EPK for nominees for each given category are listed below:
LABEL OF THE YEAR
The official website of your label, your logo, date of start-up of your label, list of your artists biographies, discography, minimum of two audio clips of music from each artist on roster, minimum of two video clips or official videos and/or performances, if available, SOUNDSCAN info, and photographs of your roster.
GRAPHIC DESIGNER
The official website of your design company, your slogan/motto/mission statement, and at least 10 examples of your graphic designs.
RAP ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
UPCOMING RAP ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 2(two) audio clips, 1(one) video clip from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
RAP FEMALE ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
UPCOMING RAP FEMALE ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 2(two) audio clips, 1(one) video clip from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
R & B ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
FEMALE R & B ARTIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist.
REGGAE ARTIST/GROUP OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist/group members.
RAP/HIP HOP GROUP OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of group members.
UPCOMING RAP/HIP HOP GROUP OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 2(two) audio clips, 1(one) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of group members.
GOSPEL ARTIST/GROUP OF THE YEAR
A biography, discography, 4(four) audio clips, 2(two) video clips from live performances and/or official music video, and 2(two) photographs of artist/group members.
POETS MALE/FEMALE OF THE YEAR
A biography, a listing of a minimum of 4(four) written examples of poetic pieces, submission of a minimum of 2(two) audio submission of poetic pieces, and 1(one) video submission (live performance or video concept) of poetry.
WRITER MALE/FEMALE OF THE YEAR
A biography, a listing of a minimum of 4(four) written examples of published articles and/or 1(one) published book.
GRINDER MALE/FEMALE OF THE YEAR
A biography, a listing of 4(four) examples of grind efforts, and 2(two) photographs.
STREET PROMOTION
A biography, a listing of 4(four) examples of promotion efforts, and 2(two) photographs.
WEBSITE OF THE YEAR
A listing of your website and a bio of the impact of such a website.
ALBUM/MIXTAPE OF THE YEAR
A physical/downloadable copy of the album/mixtape, graphic of front and back cover of album/mixtape.
DJ OF THE YEAR
A biography, physical/downloadable copy of 2(two) albums/mixtapes (if available), graphic of front and back cover of submitted albums/mixtapes, 2(two) photographs of nominee.
CLUB DJ OF THE YEAR
A biography, 2(two) recorded broadcasts of your performance, 2(two) photographs of the nominee.
UNDERGROUND/UPCOMING DJ OF THE YEAR
A biography, 1 (one) physical/downloadable copy of mixtape (if available), 1(one) recorded broadcasts of your performance, 2(two) photographs of the nominee.
BARBER/STYLIST OF THE YEAR
A biography, 5(five) photographs of cuts/styles of nominee, 2(two) photographs of the nominee.
HOTTEST INTERNET RADIO SHOW OF THE YEAR
A summary about the show, link to website of show, 4(four) audio examples of broadcasts
SONG OF THE YEAR
Biography of artist(s), lyrics of song, 1(one) audio submission of nominated song, 1(one) photograph of artist(s).
HOTTEST MUSIC VIDEO OF THE YEAR
Biography of artist(s) and music director, 1(one) video submission of nominated song, 1(one) photograph of artist(s).
CLUB OF THE YEAR
A summary about the club, listing of 5(five) events that took place at nominated club, 10(ten) photographs of club events.
CLOTHING LINE OF THE YEAR
A summary about the clothing line, 5(five) photographs of the nominated clothing line, list of locations where clothes can be bought.
CLOTHING STORE OF THE YEAR
A summary about the clothing store, 5(five) photographs of the nominated store.
PROMOTIONAL/TOP/TEEN MODEL OF THE YEAR
A model comp card, 10(ten) portfolio ready photographs of nominated model.
BAND OF THE YEAR
A biography of the band, discography (if available), list of venues in last year, 2(two) photographs of the band members.
MOST IMPACTFUL NON-PROFIT OF THE YEAR
A summary of non-profit, documented proof of non-profit status, 1(one) logo, listing of impact nominated agency has made over the past year.
SISTAH MAKING MOVES AWARDS
A biography of sistah, 2(two) photographs of nominated sistah
COMMUNITY LEADER
A biography of nominee, 2(two) photographs of nominee
If you have any questions about this F.A.Q. sheet, please contact Felicia Rivers, CEO of GeeChee One Magazine.
www.geecheeone.com
843-628-9994


